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My father wore hats, as did most men of his generation. Not baseball caps, although in his later years he had some of those, but shaped felt hats like the one I'm wearing in the above photo. I, too, wear hats, including some very nice shaped felt fedoras.
I decided to take a men's hat with me on this trip to Europe. We had plans to attend cultural events where we would dress up (we went to a concert in Prague and a ballet in Vienna). The hat I'm wearing in the above photo, taken by Eric on a tram in Vienna after the ballet, belonged to my dad, Morris Milton Fishman. I've had it since he died in 1986. Inside the leather hat band are the labels: Champ "Feel the Felt," and Club Men's Shop 551 E. 47th Street Chicago, and KASMI'R finish. There used to be a small feather decoration in the band; I think it's in the bottom of the old cardboard hat box I have from my dad's things.
Morrie Fishman was a man of broken dreams and many fears. He had big dreams and ambitions when he was young. He was a man with a singing and speaking voice of silk, and got a job as a radio announcer on WCFL, "the Voice of Labor in Chicago" operated by the AFL/CIO. He was summarily fired one day when the Manager discovered that Milton Morris (dad's radio name) was a Jew. I don't think Morrie ever recovered from that, and he spent most of his working life after that selling shoes and men's clothes.
But family was his anchor, even after he and mom divorced when I was about 8. When my brothers and I were kids, after the divorce, Morrie lived in a small residential hotel near our house, and we saw him every weekend. He taught us each to drive his car, a 1953 Hudson, and let us use his Nash Rambler when we were old enough.
As he aged, dads fears and nervousness increased. He could not handle height, so he never flew on an airplane. He could not drive on a freeway, making it very difficult to cover his territory around Chicago as a shoe manufacturer's representative. Despite these limitations, I think he enjoyed many things, including his many roles in community theater (I found out from a friend of his that the had terrible stage fright, but forced himself to get on stage because it was such a basic part of who he was).
I don't think dad ever traveled much, certainly not out of the country. He was born, lived and died in Chicago. He did visit us a few times after we moved to California, taking the train from Chicago.
And now, at the end of our trip, I've realized that one of the reasons I took this particular hat with me was to include dad in a trip overseas. If he could have overcome his fears, he would have enjoyed Prague and Vienna, and maybe even southern France, especially the food and the beautiful women!
So dad, Morrie, hat's off to you. I hope you enjoyed the trip.
- posted from the fisheyepad
Location:Dulles International Airport